Hey.

Hello.

So I'm Chris.

Caesar, right?

Caesar, hi Caesar.

Amanda, pleasure to meet you.

To be honest with you, this isn't the only reason we 've asked you here

to share the story of how you know each other.

I'm a body language expert.

All truth be told, I was analyzing your body language.

Really? That's wack.

We can speak a little bit about some of what I watched, what I noticed.

Awesome.

Is that cool?

You alright with that?

First of all, I just want to point out to both of you Stephanie s,

that you're both in what 's called kind of a closed circle here.

You're kind of both crossed your legs over to the inside.

Yeah.

So you 're creating this kind of bond between you,

just simply through the visual image that we 're seeing.

This, this sitting posture, like even how like you sit,

and then you had your arm over and around.

This is a gesture of kind of like support and strength.

So what, you 're sitting right now Caesar, this is called a Figure 4 Sitting Posture.

It's power, intelligence, taking up space.

This is like your area.

Yeah.

Literally, commandeered this area, this is your area,

and you 're protecting Amanda here with your arm around her.

We have three power zones ; neck dimple, belly button, and our naughty bits.

I don't know what else to call the last.

Fair enough.

The bottom line is the more open we are with those, the more powerful we come across.

When we 're doing this or we 're doing this or we 're doing this.

If I do this, then I'm, you know, I 'm diminishing my own power.

Amanda, you do something very cool, like when he was talking,

you 've turned toward him, you literally have faced your belly button toward Caesar,

and we face our belly button toward people we like, admire and trust.

We call it the belly button rule.

So you 've very much given him your attention.

So Jasmine, you do something very interesting too.

When you talk, you do what 's called a basketball steeple, right?

So everybody do this.

This is a... this is a power move called a steeple.

It's power, authority and control.

But it's terrible for building rapport.

So we want to stay open.

Uh-huh.

But you do the best of both worlds.

You're, you do this basketball steeple.

President Obama does this, Tim Cook, Apple will do this, right?

So you do this a lot when you talk.

So it's power, authority and control, but with compassion.

Not only do you talk about it, but we see it in your body language.

That's great.

Cool.

Thank you.

You're welcome.